Now this was
the cheapest daily mode, to the countless many , who travel-led from the
interiors of land locked hilly regions, to job available city regions, far away
to earn a living. The sums earned varied from handsome to paltry. The reasons
to work also differed.
Some to find their peace, others to be away from home,
some to escape mental torture, some to contribute to the family kitty, some to
be away from drunkard husbands, some to shirk work at home, some to have a nice
time, still some to escape the wily mother-in-law when husband went to work. Some
because of transfers as this was a preferred mode of travel. Some to escape the
always wanting-sex husband who did not want to work or the roving eyes of the
father-in-law or brother-in-law. The list goes on without repetition of reasons,
more than you can imagine.
All these women with very little privileges in
life converged into bogies specially meant for them even if it meant being
packed like sardines. They avoided the general for fear of being groped,
brushed and leered at. Also, to save them from unwelcome comments. Not that
these leering men did not have women at home to satisfy their carnal desires.
But why waste a chance as variety is the spice of life.
The women in
particular were the ones who took the brunt of all the work, though puny in
size but willpower as infinite as the vast desert lands, to keep their lives
going and preserve their dignity.They were not vying with any one but just doing their bit to ensure their progeny did not have to slog it off like them. They were headlong into making a better brighter days ahead for them. They had nothing to fall back upon other than the wages of their labour received every month .No insurance,no social security for their old age, just believed and had faith in God and moved forward.
These women
got up as early as three or four, cooked, cleaned, washed for the day, packed
lunchboxes, kissed their children goodbye to catch the first bus at five to
reach the railway station by six , run a
marathon from the nearest bus stop ,climbing the over bridge or crossing the tracks on the sly ,to plonk
themselves on the bug infested wooden benches of the local train which left
sharply to reach destination in the next two hours which faithfully spilled to
an extra hour and half .
Because of athithi devo bhava attitude instilled to
wait patiently for all the express trains entering to pass by.As these were long distance trains from the
remaining parts of India. It also added up to the fact that those
passengers had paid heftily for the comforts on wheel rails whereas the local passengers
were just the country cousins.
Do not for a moment think that these women
were spineless, hapless individuals. They were hardworking individuals
contributing to GDP and NI keeping together families in their own way. No
filthy rich backgrounds nor cash rich husbands for them to think of divorce at
the drop of a hat. It is these women who contribute in raising children who
reach bigger heights with good jobs and pay packets.Of course there is always an exception of children who milked the parents dry,but were few and far .They are the unsung , unnoticed people who
contribute to our society to make it a better place. They lead below
mediocre average lives and are proud women.
The 6.10 train morning or evening lugged all without any discrimination and whistled along gaining speed and halting when required at the sight of the flag green and red or the sound of a shrill whistle.
Many a tale of joy and sorrow emerged.Some became wise on hearing, others on seeing while others joined in animated discussions and few others were passive , mute spectators. Each day had the unfolding of a new story to tell and hear, with the actors changing or remaining the same making the journey a memorable one.
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